Tuesday, September 05, 2006

The more I get to know ,

Since coming here, My husband has come across making more people and befriending them then I have, and the man he now calls apon has been such a friend , That I have to bend my head in shame that I misjudged this man. He had so much to him then meets the eye. Yesterday , he came to the house and sat down and talked to Hank, telling him that he needed to change his habit . To stop drinking, and then told him of what could have happened if the officer he knew did what he could have. I mean , what I understand , that this officer could have taken him in for the drunk driving since it was his car that Hank was using to get around in, since our truck is down right now.
I was so glad that he stopped by, to lay it all out for him, and what he would have done, He could have gotten so upset with Hank that he would have gotten into a fight, Hank had also damaged his car, which he can't remember doing.
There are still things I don't agree with Jim about, how he is rasing his children, yet I am not a parent, and his way of doing things is all up to him. and I need to stop standing in judgment of this man, who has proven himself to be such a friend. I knew there was a reason why I choose him over Daniel . He has good charter . He has some part of him that he has come to trust . He knows what and knows what he doesn't want in his life . And he has cut back on drinking , and tells Hank he needs to stop!